Changes in Life

I used to be a person who believes that we should lead our life the way we want it to be. We change things to what we want it to be, we fight for what we want. Everything was so well planned and executed until I met someone who totally changed my perspective to life. Some things in life will not be yours even if you fight till your last breath. I have learn that what’s yours will be yours, it’s a matter of time, and what’s not, will never is, no matter how hard you tried. It seems that I have gained a new vision that can see things that I can't see in the past.

I heard from someone that we are crafted by the people around us - our family, friends, relatives and even strangers that we met once a while. It won’t be surprised that people who make a great change in your life will be a stranger instead of someone close to you. How is it possible that someone could change the whole crafting instantly? This is something that I wouldn't believe before I met one. It's not really a bad idea to meet someone like this. It is nearly impossible to change something that you strongly believe in to something else, but it's still possible.

Changing oneself doesn't mean that you have lost yourself, you just upgraded to another version - A better one, that's why it's called an upgrade. Some people may choose to downgrade themselves after they met this someone. Afterall, we do have a choice, it will depends on what we want to choose. Yes, it's always easier said then done, but if you don't do it, nothing will be done.

I have now learned how to lead a life that happens naturally and the ability to adapt to any kind of changes in life. Remember one thing, nothing will be permanent or forever. All the things we had now will change anytime, we will just have to adjust or leave it in order to move on. Do not take life for granted.

As time goes by, I have started to realise that I do not choose the way I lead my life, but my life choose the way it want me to lead instead.

"And I know what I have to do now.. I gotta keep breathing.. Because tomorrow the sun will rise..Who knows what the tide could bring?" - From the movie "Cast Away"