Are you what you think you are?

Have you ever think of asking yourself this question? - Are you what you think you are? When you are in a comfort zone, most likely you wouldn't think of this.

I have been in relationship for too long, never alone before, until my last one ended. It was long enough for me to forget when is the last time I breath the air by myself. I am too used to breathing in two. I realized that this is the beginning of being myself again, It had never been so real as myself before. I never really take a close up and understanding myself when I am in two.

Now that I believe that knowing yourself is so important before knowing someone else. I remember once I quoted 'you can lost anything in your life but not yourself'. A person without personality is an empty shell - soulless. I will still lived by the quote until now. Correct me if you think I am wrong.

If you really want to know who you are, you can try drink some alcohol. You will tend to relax yourself after some drinks but not too much. Maybe by then, you will discovered the real you behind all this shadows, realises who you really are and what you really want. Good luck!

My Food

I am a food lover who can travelled a distance just to eat something I craved for. Yesterday, on my way back home after my class, I stopped by a hawker centre for some food. I ordered the famous fried oyster and it came in the best colour, smell and taste.

The olden chinese always say that a good food is make up of the 'colour', 'smell' and 'taste' (色香味俱全). I realised that it may be more then that. It will still need to depend on 'your mood' and 'companion' you are with. It's like drinking beer alone or with good friends or drinking in a bad mood or a happy mood. Seems like same beer but different taste at different time.

If you think eating alone is bad, wait until you eat with someone you dislike. I will rather eat alone.

My good food = colour + smell + taste + mood + companion. Agree?

A pair of life

Basically in Singapore, you may need to be in pair in order to be considered as 'having a life' but I will called it 'a pair of life' instead. Having a space of your own, you will need to be rich enough to afford a private apartment or you will have to be in pair in order to buy a hdb. Sad but true.This is not a place for poor single to stay but what I think is that we should be more independent before we really start a family. Anyway, the government will realise this one day.

Does everything you does has to do it in two? What if you are alone? Does it mean that you will not be given a life? Whatever you does is 'no life'? One of my friend said that 'having a life' is to going to museum with her spouse. Is that really are? Yes, but only apply to her. I do enjoy going museum, but there's much more 'life' out there for me then just that.

Actually, it really depends on individual as everyone are satisfy with different 'life'. Singlehood to someone may seem lifeless because they choose to view it in this way but not to all. I think I will rather called it a 'pair of life' and a 'single life'. Infact, we just need to enjoy life while we can.

Someone once adviced me - treasure what you have now. Didn't I? Did you?

电影"门徒"说"到底空虚恐怖,还是毒品恐怖?"
我说"到底失去自己恐怖,还是失去感情恐怖?"