我的黑色颐和园

After watching the movie "summer palace" with some good friends, we decided to find a place to have some drinks and discussion. We realised that what being shown has some reflections of our real life from the people you know. You may need to have some experiences in relationship in order to appreciate this show.

I remembered one part that touches me is that this main actress trying to light a cigarette and she happen to ask for a lighter from this boyfriend. This boyfriend who has a lighter that just couldn't light up. Suddenly, the actress seems to has solved the puzzle which is in her heart for so many years. A relationship is just like smoking a stick of cigarette to keep you warm when the weather's cold. Every partner you find represent a lighter, but not all lighter will works. Even if it works and lighted your cigarette, it will only warmed you for a length of a cigarette. How many stick do you really need to keep you warm in a Lifetime?

In actual life, we are born alone, and wil eventually die alone. Everyone seems to felt so cold to be alone and searching for ways to warm themselves. Some may even get lost. In real life, some people you met earlier may be the only one you can love later, just that it just happen to appear at the wrong time of your life. Once you missed it, you missed it. There's just no way to turn back, the fire will not be lighted up again.

Life's such a drama.